Depressed and less confident about my appearance. I used to have the most gorgeous, thick, long hair, which was the one thing I prided myself on. Even at my age (even though I'm 59, I look like I'm in my 40s), people used to stop me all the time and compliment me on my hair. Now, my hair is thin (you can see my ears through my hair; I still wear it long) and balding on top. When I used to put on a baseball cap or wear a band to keep my hair back, it was so thick sometimes I couldn't even get it through the back of the cap or into a band. Now, it's pencil thin.

I am a 59-year old woman who is blessed to look younger than my age. I am thin, I like to exercise (Stairmaster in my bedroom), hike and stay active. I am trim and healthy. I have three children and two grandchildren. The ages of my children are: daughter 33, adopted son 21, adopted son 18. My 2 grandsons, 6 and 2, respectively live close to me with their mother and father and I see them most every day. I am divorced, and where I used to stay home, after my divorce, I needed a job, so I work as a legal "assistant." I live in a lovely rented 3-bedroom home in the San Fernando Valley, Southern California (lost my home in the divorce). I have a difficult time meeting men, and haven't had a "date" in a long, long time. Where I used to meet people because of my confidence, I find myself looking down a lot, wanting to become invisible.