I decided a few weeks ago that wigs just aren't for me.  I like the way I look in the mirror with one on, but styling options are limited because my hairline perimeter is so thick (unlike the thin parts that I'm trying to cover up).  I couldn't pull the sides back because it was too obvious that it was a wig.  Even with a low ponytail, my own nape hair would show.  The only way to take care of that was frequent shaving and I didn't have the desire to do that.  I could hardly wait to pull the wig off and let my head breathe at the end of the day.  It was hard for my kids to see me go back and forth with long and short hair.  My hair is a little shorter now than I've worn it in the past and I like it this way, for now.  Styling doesn't take me as long as when my hair was a little longer.  I'm glad not to be drawing so much attention to my hair and just looking the same in the mirror every day.  I feel more like myself again but liking myself more than I did before :)  Not sure what my future plans are for hair replacement but it won't be wigs :)