tonight while we were talking, he looked up at my balding spot and I was like you are looking at my bald area arent you? He has been in denial and he said he could really notice it tonight. Then he says I really shouldnt part my hair where it is. I saw my therapist today so I guess I was feeling pretty empowered because i told him I cant worry about it , I feel like there is nothing I can do about it so why continue to drive myself crazy over it? But ten minutes later I was in the mirror obsessing, it's pitiful.